Thank you, idexter and bptoo, for your wonderfully kind, wise, concise, and educational posts that respected both L and B and all contributors and made the boundaries clear. I was so upset with L's post that I was at a loss for appropriate words. In reading back, I see that B could have even thought that I was referring to her! Thank you for taking care of this so with such great compassion and respect for all of us. We are so lucky to have forum contributors such as you to get things on track. Thank you.