I have went out on a few dates with different men. Well starting out I told myself I was just going to date that is all. Well one of the guys wanted a second date. I still wasn't sure if we had that much in common. But went out on a second and third date. We really had a lot of fun. Then he explains he has a doctor's appointment. It is something very serious, he said they gave him medication to take for 2 weeks and in 3 weeks he will go back for a biopsies. The medication they put him on made him very sick. He quick taking it and called the doctor back and explained he couldn't take it. They never called him back so he started taking it again and it done the same thing to him. Still has not heard from the doctor. Set up an appointment with a new doctor on Tuesday of this week. The last day I talked to him he was sick, didn't want to talk to anyone and he wanted to be well. I explained I would not bother him but I would like to know how he is doing. I would not feel like this wouldbe a problem, but I didn't take this dating seriously for about 3 weeks. If I could answer my phone I would but if I couldnt I didn't. And he kept telling me I was being mean to him. I explained my work and if I can answer I will. When I'm at home I answer. And I also explained if someone shows me they want me in their life for the right reason then I will show some caring in there. Well he is a very nice person seems to know how to treat women. I made sure I answer his calls when called. And now I don't hear anything. Please give advice. Call and check on him or let him call. But if I was interested in someone would you call and let them know what the new doctor said. It is just driving me crazy. Thanks for any kind of in put you can give me.