I don't have that problem but I do have a bit of advice. You should go to a different pdoc or a Therapist for a few counseling sessions. The first doc you saw was wrong as far as I am concerned. When the problem is affecting your life and you think you need treatment then you deserve to get it. You seem like an intelligent, caring person and you deserve to have the life you dream of and if you think counseling will help you get it then go for it.