I agree with the way that Leigh put things for herself. She is straight, and struggles with her high sex drive. I am very similar. Either I put it all away (like I did with my ex-hub), or it comes alive to the nth degree (like with my current bf).

While my bf may not mind it, part of me is tired ~ yet I have a very difficult time becoming sexually & emotionally satisfied. What does that mean?? I have wondered about this for many years, but I still have not come up with a reason and/or a solution.

Ugh!!