So often we ignore the red flags that are waving right there in our fact, telling us that this relationship isn't good & we need to stop wasting our time with this person.
I ALWAYS listen to my red flags now because I didn't & ended up in a 33 year BAD marriage....
We can try to excuse away bad behavior.....but it's ALWAYS going to be there...leapords don't change their spots.....lying is the largest red flag of all......no matter what they are covering up with the lies, they are covering something up. I lived with a guy who would just NOT tell me something & thought because he didn't say it, it wasn't a lie....but a cover up is a lie just the same....you have reasons NOT to trust this guy.....so stop trying to make up reasons to trust him.
Sex NEVER FIXES any relationship....it only makes you more attached to him when he could care less....
I think Rose76 put it perfectly.
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You could probably go out on the street and pick out anyone at random and do better for yourself.
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He's not even offering you anything from his side of the relationship....NOTHING.....no money, no emotional involvement.....he's USING YOU for what he wants when he wants it & you are the one paying for it (time & money)......that is NOT called a RELATIONSHIP.