Yeah. What Dex said. Again. :-) (Sorry -- I've been busy entertaining my mother and 2 sisters all weekend and only sporadically get a chance to get here, so it's likely that someone else will come up with my ideas first!)

I think it's commendable that you bit your tongue, as it were, and didn't let that jerk have it. Deleting his emails was a great idea, but man -- I'd have had to flame him before letting it go ;-). Good for you for being more mature than that.

I'm sorry you're having so much trouble with jerky men. That's why I've written off straight men. :-) Every single one of my male friends is gay, and they're much more human.

BTW Dex, at my men-are-pigs party, I served assorted flavors of Ben and Jerry's and Haagen-Daz. Remove top, insert spoon, GO! :-)

Candy

Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal. -- Albert Camus