I am so sorry for how you feel. I'll be honest I had a bf who told me because I gained weight i wasn't as attractive for him. I am not overweight but on occasion I gain few extra pounds in the winter. Honestly after that comment I never wanted sex with him again and eventually left him. I could never get over it. But then other women stay with guys when they call them fat all the time. My own mother does and my dad commented on her weight and she is not even heavy either!

I don't have any advice I think eating healthy and exercising is a good idea regardless if he is attracted to you or not. Sorry I don't know how to help but I understand d how you feel and want to give you a hug

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