Hi Bebop_809

I am sorry to hear that you are in this complex situation.

First and foremost, are you receiving something like external counselling to help you through this? This may be of assistance to you.

To address some of the points that you raised.

Financially, so long as you continue to rescue your partner, he is enabled to be irresponsible with finances. This is a real tough one.

Secondly, your friends are your friends - in my personal opinion only, I don't feel one should be dominated by others with regards to when and under what conditions one should be free to interact with ones friends.

Thirdly, it sounds as if he needs counselling to address his anger issues.

Please let us know how you are travelling.

We are here to support you.

Take care.