Hi Friend

I think I am in the same boat as you. I was married for 27 years. My husband left 4 months ago. A month later, he too produced a contract he had made up for me to sign, there was a page to sign waiving my seeing a lawyer too. Then just today, he told me he had coffee with a 24 year old girl he had been seeing 5 years ago. We split up 5 years ago due to her and tried to make our marriage work. My head is spinning with how many lies he has told over the years and now he decides to be honest. I reached a simple equation when I found out about his 2 year secret affair - I had enough room to delight in my 4 kids or I could start a war with my husband. There wasn't room enough for both. As for spending 27 years with the man - my time was filled with love, caring, joy and my 4 kids. I don't have to worry anymore about what his time was filled. It's really peaceful and joyful not worrying about him - he believed he should express himself more in the end of our relationship - I told him off for yelling at my 14 year old who is like a sweet young colt. I send you a warm hug and an offer of friendship. I was gnashing my teeth until I shared with you. Thanks.