Thanks for the suggestion. I bought him a present last night and decided I would tell him I was pretty "scattered" last week apologize to him today. The calendar idea is great. Even though traditionally I have been able to remember events and just 'change my mind' about going, I've reached a point in my life where I might not remember the event due to the magnitude of the episode. I guess that's why I was referred to a pdoc. Thanks for the feedback and the suggestions.