The first thing I'd like to do to working toward being a relationship hero here is:

Respond more than I do. I read alot. I have responses in my head and don't type them nearly as much as I think them. That doesn't help those whose posts I'm reading...not to comment when I have one. I can type as fast as I can think almost. I don't know why I do that, so I'm going to work actively to change that.

KD