hi, i have some theory in chinese, which right now i can't translate too well into english, and by far no one understands. the general idea is the life is long term and thus go a corresponding way, to live we need positive experience, and with the positive experience in store and being the base, we can do something facing bad things, at then we can retrieve to our good experience and memory and from rest in there, we can figure out means to react to bad, and change it into good. life is always 2 phases, inside the positives to live on by and extending out from inside our defense and fight. if you know this, you can talk to me.