hi xplodins
we are unable to diagnosis here but your boyfriend is definitely exhibiting signs of a mental health issue. he sounds very much like a friend of mine that has schizophrenia. i would encourage him to go to a professional for an evaluation. these issues are not going to go away without some sort of treatment. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome