if you are concerned aobut ocd, check with a professional, most champuses have free counseling available. but the concern about the bathroom doesnt necessarily mean ocd. i have to go before i go to bed as well. i am obessive about it. i am terrified of wetting the bed as well. i am 51. i havent wet the bed in forever. but when i was nine we were staying in a hotel and i had a dream that i was going to the bathroom and i wet the bed. my dad beat the **** out of me. so it is not ocd that drives my bathroom night obession but my trauma from ptsd