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Originally Posted by emory_
I think you're coming across as rather rude when I only stated an opinion. You don't have to listen to me. You weren't looking for opinions, you were looking for someone to validate your thoughts and to say exactly what you wanted to hear. Which is fine because all people need validation sometimes. But don't put words in my mouth and don't point fingers at me.
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I wasn't really trying to single you out or put words in your mouth, I was simply responding to what you said and pointing out why I disagree. You said that you would not trust 30 a year old guy who who dates a girl as young as 19 based on the fact that you think they are at different maturity levels. I pointed out how I am 27 and WOULD date a girl that young and how I don't see the maturity difference as being an issue, considering how in many ways, most girls my own age are ahead of me in maturity.
A 19 year old is an adult. I don't get why people are ok with 19 year olds fighting in the military and being tried as adults in criminal courts, but if someone older wants to date them, THAT'S what they have a problem with. I am pretty sure it's about something other than their alleged lack of maturity.