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With regard to the concerns you wrote about in your post, it sounds as though your "ex partner" has some serious problems. It is not possible for me to know what the circumstances are like in your country. So I may or may not be able to offer anything useful in the way of suggestions. But, it seems to me that your ex really needs to seek medical, drug treatment, & mental health assistance. He potentially may have problems in each of these areas.

A good place to start would be with a physical exam, & honest discussion, with a general practice physician. This physician could then, hopefully, refer your ex on for additional services. At least this is the way this sort of thing might typically work in the U.S. Of course, your ex has to be willing to participate. If he is not (& from what you wrote, it sounds like he may not be) then you must decide how much further involvement you want to have with this man. Again, based on what you wrote, it sounds to me as though he has the potential to be dangerous & you must protect yourself. Under any circumstances keep posting, here on PC, with regard to this. You'll be able to get additional viewpoints & suggestions from other PC members.

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