Ow ww! I'm sorry, it's not her fault! What ever your problem is your projecting on this innocent kid. She's suffering because of you! She doesn't deserve that. How about a therapist? She almost sounds like a rape kid, they are rejected but almost loved. I don't think you need to be cuddled, she does. Pardon me for my harsh and straight up thoughts, but she's got no protection.

I would be checking in with the closest therapist. I've been where it's like if you don't love me, give me away so the next person would...maybe.