Here is an answer from one lady. I don't care about a man's health issues.....I have some too. I also don't care about the size of a house or a wallet. I can take care of myself. What I am interested in is the real person who lives inside the body. I am interested in what he thinks, his sense of humor, his integrity, his capacity for compassion and caring, spontaneity. In general, what sort of person he is. You are most certainly not a lost, hopeless and worthless cause. You are just lonely and I know that somewhere out there is a woman who is looking for you so just keep going and see what happens.