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Originally Posted by divine1966
Honestly if you are 27 and never dated anyone then the age of your prospective date might not be the biggest issue here. Is there any particular reason you have never dated or have been in a relationship? I understand being conservative and coming from a different background but if you live in the U.S. And typically at age 27 completed your education/training and are working, so what is the reason for you not dating?
You seem to be very upset and preoccupied with idea of young girl yet you have no experience with any girls. I am not judging as you might have your reasons but until you actually date you might not even know what you prefer. Start dating
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Well, first thing I should mention, I'm actually still 26, almost 27, I just round up.
But there are a slew of reasons why I never got to date and, believe it or not, my family's conservative culture is actually NOT one of them. My parents actually have no real problem with dating and my mom actually tries to encourage me to talk to girls. My youngest brother who is 18 has already had a bunch of girlfriends. As for the reason I never got to date, it all starts in school when I was awkward and a social outcast. Everyone looked at me as a loser, and I could not get involved at all socially. In other words, it was forced on me by others. The same "others" who now want to tell me I am a creep if I date younger women. Just fyi, just typing that out fills me with so much rage. But anyways, when I got to college I managed to find a group of friends, basically people from my cultural group. However, since my previous experiences left me socially awkward, I was incapable of breaking out of my shell and getting involved in social activities which would enable me to meet girls I like.
Anyways, age itself doesn't matter to me. If I met a girl I really liked and found myself attracted to, I would be interested in her regardless of her age. However, the issue is, since I didn't get to date yet, I still need to play the field and figure out what I want in a relationship before I can even think about anything serious or long term. Most women over 24-25 are no longer just looking to have flings like the ones I am looking for; they already got it out of their system and now they know what they want. Yes I KNOW this doesn't apply to ALL of them, and there are some women my age like me, but those are the exception, not the rule. The fact is, the VAST majority of the girls I will meet who will be looking for the same thing I am looking for will be YOUNGER. There is no denying this. Also, even IF there were just as many women my age and older looking for this kind of thing(which again, there just isn't), I can't control who I like. It is just to get a crush on a younger woman than a woman my age. I don't think it's fair that I would be expected to pass those up just because they are younger. I shouldn't have to limit myself at all.