hi fortbliss
i really dont have an answer for you but i know you arent the only one. i just read a post about an identical problem last night. i would check with a dr to make sure the issue isnt medical and then find a counselor who has some knowledge of sexual issues to talk to about it. that is about all i can think of. i really just wanted to welcome you. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome