I was bullied by one at work nearly two years ago, which is what brought me into therapy. I was referred from work to well being at work. I was referred also to a counsellor. I was at the point of physically attacking her. Unfortunately, she triggered me, which I didn't know at the time, so it was a double whammy for me. I went through the grievance procedure at work & she was eventually found out & exposed. She destroyed me for quite a while, but I won in the end. She lost her job, which in my opinion, was a very light sentence as nothing less than burning at the stake would have been acceptable to me!! That's what they did to her ancestors at Salam anyway. Lol. I can't just walk away, as people like that take life away from you, bit by bit, destroying your soul. Record every exchange with the person, and how their tone to you was etc and then expose them. Sneaky, weak, nasty people.
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