Hi- for any of you who are spouses of people with Asperger's (or suspected)- how do you stand it?
I'm finding it really difficult to not get upset when I'm crabbed at, rejected, yelled at. He acts annoyed when I speak to him- I'm so tired of the deep sighs and rolling of the eyes.
When I tell him I don't like it when he (fill in the blank), he says he didn't.

There's a lot of denial going on. He even ignored the warning lights in his car and let an engine melt.

Im having trouble not letting this stuff get me upset. Any advice appreciated- is anyone else going through this?