We used to text before my transference and when my mom was dying/passed away. She explained (and I agree) that it's easy for her to deal with grief/loss via text but other emotions are hard for her to interpret and she might say the wrong thing. I'm very vague so she probably wouldn't be able to tell via text. She doesn't email with any clients. I am seeing her once a week and she feels it's enough. If I literally couldn't leave the house and stop crying, then I bet she would see me. I'm going to talk to her about asking for encouraging texts. If I text her that the day is hard, maybe there's somethign she can text back without starting a conversation. I almost texted her today. My pattern is today and tomorrow will be hard. But, then I seem a lot better by Thursday. ANd, by the time she could get me in it would probably be then. I need to ask her better ways to cope.