Well I work offshore and I'm home 4 months out of the year. (14days on 7days off) im hoping the 7 days I'm home I'll be able to have my daughter but I know while she's and infant that will be difficult because the mother is breast feeding. I'll most likely get her for the day 3-4 times when im home or spend the day where the mother of my child is staying, her parents house. I still have a relationship with her family so I don't think that would be a problem but I won't know until that time comes. I'll also be paying for everything considering the mother does not have a job. This is my first child so I'm still not sure what to expect. I absolutely want to be in my daughters life as much as possible but I know there will be a lot of obsticles.