I think there is something wrong when you feel you´re not ready for a relationship and you´d never sought out one when you´re above 30 years of age. It´s true you can´t force yourself but there´s always a thought in my head that I´m not normal. I also really wonder how and why I ended up this way. There are no medical problems to this.
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Originally Posted by sideblinded
Hi PaulaS
I read your post and I am sorry that you are questioning your social and sexual life. Sometimes if we haven't found the right person we don't really have the need to just go out and force ourselves to find someone. In other words I didn't get married the first time until I was 31. I wasn't a virgin but I wasn't all that interested in being with someone when I hadn't found anyone I was interested in. I am not so sure that you are abnormal. There is always a chance that it could be a medical problem but I am not feeling that your situation is abnormal in any way. Some people are late bloomers. Some people don't even realize that they were never interested in the same sex until much later in life. These are just examples not meant that you are going through this. Maybe a T could help reassure you that you just aren't ready. I don't know if this helps but I do wish you the very best.  |