I don't know how " normal" feels, but the way my husband responded to my honest, uninhibited (yes, I drank today, but I really stopped to think about this and believe it to be my genuine personal truth) dialogue with him about our relationship left me feeling hurt.
I think that he only wants me if I will be a doormat d*c*s**k*r for him, and I feel like I'm just beyond that at this point in my life.
I love him dearly, but after almost 20 years of marriage, I finally love ME more

Really sad, but liberating!
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