I have a friend that tends to not pay attention and tends to give off the vibe that she does not give a crap. She always has conversations with people through texting when we are together and never seems to hear or care about what I am saying. When I call her out on it she says she just has ADD but she really is just texting, don't think ADD can make someone text non stop and she is not forgetful and shows no signs of ADD since I have known people in the past who actually had it. Also once she bailed out of plans, she claimed she just forgot but feel like that was not true because she did not seem to care and also made no attempt to reschedule. And she was hanging with someone else and when she will hang out with that person no matter how much homework she has to do, yet if I make a suggestion to hang out which is not often, she could be bored out of her mind to the point that she complains about it and she will still say no. Kind of feel like she is blowing me off even though she says it's not the case. She also once invited her other friend along in our plans that had been bailed on but that friend did not want to hang out with both of us, just her so she stayed with that friend. She has done this before with others as well. And I am apparently not the only person who feels she does not care. Apparently her family feel the same way. Just confused and not sure what is going on or what to do. Am I overreacting or is she really acting flaky? Not sure.
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