My t is a straight female, and I'm sure she assumed I was too (straight I mean),as I have been with my male partner for over twenty years and we have children.
So I think I really threw her when I discussed a sexual relationship with a female friend. It's not a big thing to me, but I think it is to her. I mean, she's obviously very open, accepting blah blah, but she kind of makes more of this thing with my friend than I do, I think it is an issue in some way...so yeah, I definitely won't be talking about any of that again, it has a real impact.