I don't think she meant it in a bad way. I was saying I didn't like that she increased her boundaries last summer. We used to text more and then she stopped when my transference started. She said at first I was dealing with grief/loss and she recognizes that via texting. But, other emotions are more difficult to understand and better talked about in person. She said she might keep in contact with someone with drug recovery/depression issues. I'm trying to understand and don't want to be too hurt before I talk to her. I think I know what she was trying to say but she won't be saying it again.