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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl
I don't think I would feel hurt if I walked away, what bothers me most is I can't work out if I'm doing that to avoid confronting my own awful behaviour. That's where it's different from your case - I have a pattern of pushing people (unwittingly, but happens nonetheless) and they pull away from me then. I am not innocent here. I demanded and demanded and demanded and could not accept the new boundary structure.
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This is all the more reason why you would benefit from seeing another T. A good T will not respond to this kind of pushing by lashing out, sulking, terminating you by text and then reversing it, punishing you with snide assignments, etc. I do not believe that you can safely and constructively confront your own patterns with this T.