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Old Jan 28, 2015, 03:08 PM
RoryPond1 RoryPond1 is offline
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First off, I apologize if this in the wrong place. I didn't know where to put it.

My daughter, Jackie is 13 and has always been a very sad and lonely girl. She has never had any real friends and and people around her have always either ignored her or made fun of her. Her own birth mother has made it clear that she doesn't want her by the fact that even though she lives 10 miles away, she hasn't had any contact with them in 3 years and even the last time ( 2 weeks ago ) was only because my daughters aunt made her. That call lasted less than five minutes before she hung up without even saying I love you. This for obvious reason really tears my daughter apart. My wife and I, along with her siblings and aunts and uncles try so hard to be there for her and lift spirits but its hard with the way she is treated. She is such a beautiful and loving girl that I cant understand why people don't like her. The real problem is though, that every time she gets down so much and so low, she not only tries to hurt herself ( stabbing her leg with pencils, that sort of thing ) then she always accuses somebody of sexual abuse. When that happens ( it has happened 5 times so far since age 9 and always against a different person ) then she gets all the love and attention she wants, only to turn around and admit she was lying and have it all dropped. I often wondered if she was actually abused and just too scared to say by who. But now she has done it again and its against me. I swear I DID NOT do this! I would never hurt my daughter, I never even disciplined her before because I hate seeing her hurt. Now for the first time after all the other allegations, her and her siblings have been removed from our home, I am facing child sexual abuse charges, my wife is facing child endangerment charges. I am facing years in prison and losing my entire family over a crime I did not commit. The police and child services know of her past history and even have it on record but they are not considering it, they aren't even putting it in there paperwork for court because they say it is irrelevant. It can't be irrelevant! I had hoped and prayed that she would have told the truth by now, but as my friend says " She was never taken away before, she was always with people who loved her that she trusted. Maybe now that was taken, she is too scared to say anything. ) Through this all the only thing I can do is feel sad for my daughter, to feel she needs to do things like this. I am not mad at her even though I probably should be. The worst part to me though is I can't get past the feeling that my daughter hates me. I need to know why a child would do this sort of thing. I want help for my daughter and if it takes me going to prison for that beautiful little girl to get the help she needs then so be it, but I will never make a false confession. Basically I am asking for help and advice for my daughter and the rest of us. Please somebody give me something.

Last edited by bluekoi; Jan 28, 2015 at 10:56 PM. Reason: Add trigger icon.
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