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Originally Posted by Ididitmyway
The solution to this "problem" is very simple. She should have said just once that she would not answer personal questions because this is not what therapy hour is for. That's all. No further discussion. Then it would be up to you to take it or leave it. It's not your fault that she didn't do what she should've done.
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She has never said she will never answer personal questions (I don't tend to ask obscure personal questions, but I feel so insecure with her I asked regularly if her feelings had changed towards me, cause it's all so different now). But she has repeatedly said why she needs to keep the new boundaries of much less contact, no weekend contact, fewer sessions, etc.
I kept feeling abandoned by it and kept bringing it up.
If only I hadn't felt so hurt and in pain, and hadn't brought it up...