Echoes.... You are PAYING for her services. You have a right to expect something from her. Why would you not think that you are due something from her?

Are you always on your mark at work? Somedays she might not quite be on her mark... never know. Something might have caused it but it was not automatically YOU my dear. You could ask..and it is your right. It is your opportunity to get to know each other a bit better.

I think that you hear from many of us that often we do have times of being angry with our T's. Sometimes we are angry at our T's and sometimes we are angry at who they might represent. That anger is relavent to our treatment and being able to share it might open a window to ... who knows what.. healing....catharsis.....both?

Yes that is scarey. You might see or ask how your T feels about your expressing your anger. This could be a test of your boundaries or the therapeutic boundaries and that is normal. Also, just because you are angry does not mean you will stay that way. Is this a matter of your being able to be angry or how do you think she would receive your anger or concerns or questions....about what is going on within the room?