Question number one; has she helped you in the areas you are working on? Ie the way you interact with others?

#2; are you emotionally reacting to hearing things you are not ready to face up to about your own actions?

#3; will this behavior be repeated with a new T?

What would happen if you wrote don't your feelings and did not go in to therapy with the intention of confronting but with an open mind to solving this issue and setting clear understandable boundaries? Ie how many times you may call or email between sessions.