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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl
Sorry, it's not clear what I've said - where I have 'PA' here I have the PA's name. The second part of the email is for her.
I really want to say these things, or at least some of them. I want to go out with a bang. She won't reply because she is too cowardly, and there is no going back if I send this. None.
It's like flicking a lit match as I close the door. There is no danger of wringing my hands and wanting to go back, and her going maybe and then me jumping through umpteen hoops to get back in that ****ing room...Even if I cave and beg to go back, she will never, ever let me, will not entertain the idea, if I send this to her. It guarantees me getting away.
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I wouldn't put the information for the PA in the same email. (1) The implies your T can forward this email to your PA in its entirety. Is that what you intend? (2) The information may not get to the PA at all.
In the least, send those messages directly to the person they are for. Instead, word it something like "I have emailed your PA my request for my records. Any further correspondence concerning my records will be conducted through her.
But honestly, you are still engaging in a conversation with your T, even if you say she won't respond. Don't engage in the "I'm going to have the last word" thing. If you need to work through this, do it with a competent therapist; file a grievance down the road if you must (I'd wait until I had my records first). But this email just comes off as one more attempt to have the last word. Disengage entirely. It isn't going to prove anything; it isn't going to fix anything.