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Old Jan 28, 2015, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted by lolagrace View Post
Yes, my suspicion is that email would do nothing but "prove" to her (in her mind and way of thinking) that she's been right about you and this is just one more example of what she would deem as "abusive". (I'm not saying it is; I'm saying SHE will see it that way.)

Plus, if you do follow through with filing a grievance, this could work against your favor. Save it for the grievance papers. Save it for discussion with a competent therapist.
How will it work against me in a grievance??

And I won't have another therapist for at least a few months, probably not until summer. I also don't want to talk about it with another person when she is not dead or emigrated and I have the option of saying it to her.
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