I have to agree with the others, IG, on the email. The less information you give her at this point the better off you will be. If you do decide to file a complaint, you don't want her to know the direction you will be coming from in regard to her behavior as the professional. It isn't bad that you have earlier emails that indicate emotional dysregulation and attachment anxiety! That's why you are in therapy and it was her job to treat you in a professional and competent manner. . . . which she did NOT do as evidenced by the emails, voicemails and personal notes you will have to back up your complaint.

AND if you don't decide to file that's okay too. I like the comment from one of the posters that talks about not "leaking" out what you're thinking and feeling at this moment. Your therapist has not treated your feelings and thoughts with respect so why give her even more ammunition? Short and sweet email that says you're terminating all future sessions and please do not contact me. I like that it will be in a written email in case she does go off the edge and decide to contact you! Take care of you, not her!