Thanks, Clementine.

I just want to reiterate - I was **** hot with the boundaries coming into therapy. I asked, and asked, and she kept saying no, all was fine, that I made her laugh withhow concerned I was at the idea of treading on a boundary.

She encouraged me. I was grand on my session every 5 days. She suggested upping it. I never demanded texts or emails back -I'm not like that with others,and I dont text back straightaway either, becauseI could be out, or cooking or in the shower etc. But she would spend time when she could writing back detailed replies, as well as wee texts saying eg Im at my friend's baby shower or out to dinner, etc. Texts late at night. All SO cadual and friendly, and affectionate.It is a huge shock for somebody to change everything. I just could not catch up.