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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl
How will it work against me in a grievance??
And I won't have another therapist for at least a few months, probably not until summer. I also don't want to talk about it with another person when she is not dead or emigrated and I have the option of saying it to her.
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You are talking to "us" about it.
Somehow i dont think we are doing you any favors, letting you engage (on pc) this way? Also, who are we to you? You have a years long relationship with your t. We are just electronic marks on an electronic screen. I feel like my t would be miffed if i said, "well the pc people told me to blah blah blah." Because who has really been there for me? And all this rigamarole is flowing from her cancelling a session? Isnt that an overreaction?
While it is a truism that you work out your relationship with your previous t when you start with your next t, it is also true that if you are having problems with a t, a prospective next t will often encourage you to try to work them out with the original t, otherwise you just bring the problem forward to the next relationship.
I hope you take from everyones posts over the past while that yes all these little electronic marks DO really care about you, and we support you in whatever you decide to do.
