I have to disagree a little bit, because I do have to justify it in my own mind. I think that people divorce far too easily, but when you just can't take something anymore and you are being emotionally abused, you have to say enough is enough. If not for that, I would still be with her because I have strong feelings for her. But that is the problem of the codependent, and I do have those codependency issues. I have to say no, and stick to it, and as sad as it is, what can I do.