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Originally Posted by NowhereUSA
Short and sweet. When you give excuses, you're cracking a door. Slam that thing shut.
"I'm canceling all upcoming appointments. Please do not contact me." - IG
Then send a separate email with, "Please provide my records. Thank you" to whomever is in charge of dealing with that.
The end. It's professional, polite, and if she does contact you, ignore, ignore, ignore. Pulling from DBT - be a broken record and in this case it means no matter what, do not respond to her.
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know this is good and sane advice, echoed by lots of others.
I thought I could do it alone but think I might need help, so have called about emergency counselling with a local body. As it happens they have no waiting list at present, so will call back by close of play with a few dates/ times I can potentially go in next week etc.
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Originally Posted by licketysplit
Hi IG, I used the term leaking, but I was not referring to leaking the truth. I meant leaking your personal power, giving it away for her to do what she wants with it. You don't see it that way, but I just wanted to clear up what I meant. Less, in this case, is more.
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Thank you for explaining - I guess I see there being a certain type of personal power in speaking the truth before walking away. I understand your point of view too, though.