The other thread was closed and I have no idea why. I still want to respond to your response to me.
Sorry, but ignorance=carelessness and getting pregnant.
And as far as sex without love in 2015, well that is just ego and arrogance on your part. I doubt the mother of your child would say she knew you didn't love her and had sex anyway.
Had you not lost your first love and at 26 were still together and in love, then Yep, now would have been the time to bring a child into the mix.

Good luck to you!