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Originally Posted by hannabee
The other thread was closed and I have no idea why. I still want to respond to your response to me.
Sorry, but ignorance=carelessness and getting pregnant.
And as far as sex without love in 2015, well that is just ego and arrogance on your part. I doubt the mother of your child would say she knew you didn't love her and had sex anyway.
Had you not lost your first love and at 26 were still together and in love, then Yep, now would have been the time to bring a child into the mix.
Good luck to you!
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I'm not sure why it was closed.. Wish they would have closed this one instead, but anyway. Yes ignorance is carelessness and I can't Deny that. I can assure you me and her we're not in love when we had sex for the first time. Unfortunately that is the norm in most relationships today. Where I live, and I'm sure numerous other places, there are single mothers, children out of wedlock, broken family's. While I can't say I'm not proud to apart of that statistic but I can still say I will be there for my daughter and her mother.
As far as X, I will pursue that relationship. Whether it's infatuation or love (but apparently I have no idea what that is) If it doesn't work then I guess it's another life lesson. With the way I feel about her, To never try at all would be a failure in my book. And I've got plenty of them. I'm not perfect by a longshot. I'm sure you don't agree and I appriciate all the insight you have given