Ok so I'm new here, I'm a little unsure about the whole thing but I have to start somewhere, right?

I have had a few dirrerent diagnosis over the years. I have anxiety & mood problems, that are the mildest part of the problem. Past therapists have diagnoised me as a borderline personality, and dysthimic. My current therapist agrees but is thinking bi-polar too.

I've done alot of research on borderline personality disorder, and i do think this condition most fits me. My biggest issue is I dont know who I am!!!!! Most sources say this is a condition that is outgrown, but what do i do untill then?

I'm rambling, I'm sorry just reachin for a little help. Anyone have any helpful info, or insight?