Thanks everyone for replying and for your support. I made it thru the day ok... i guess. I just couldnt believe how he could show up and not call ahead to see if we were around. And then to act like he hadnt done anything wrong all day!! I had to laugh though .. my dad confronted him about not seeing him for little over a year and my brother just asked dad.... I havent changed much have I? WTH???????
Thats how dense my brother is.. and then he started sidestepping the conversation by talking about what was in the paper. He doesnt get it that he is on dads s--t list! Ohhh well.. He left and I was relieved as much as I could be.

Again thanks for listening to my rant .. and for caring so much. Means alot to me .

Hugz
Bethy