Needless to say, he doesn't get my social anxiety or panic attacks, or my depression. This might sound trivial, but here is an example of stuff that he thinks I overreact to. BTW, he tends to be very stoic and he can control his emotions very well most of the time.

I'm a sensitive and emotional person which I hate as it make life so much harder than it already is. Well, he raised his voice to me earlier in regards to our cat. I took our cat to the vets today and I told him that they told me that it'd cost $670 to get some dental treatment done. He then told me if I paid them and that they're trying to rip us off, ugh!

I saw how bad my cats teeth were earlier! Well, he was to busy lecturing me to listen to me when I said that I set up a care credit plan, but that I didn't pay them that amount. I just told him that we can make monthly payments up to 6 months with no interest. He then kept on asking me if I paid them or not, ugh! I already said no 2 or 3 times, so I was starting to get upset and annoyed. I do get stressed out easily, and he tends to make a bad situation worse with his judgements.

Well, to make things worse, after I picked up my cat, I accidentally got into this woman's car with my cat since I wasn't paying attention. Our cars do look similar, lol. Thankfully she didn't freak out. Then when I came home, he was outside with our other cat with the door open. Before I got inside, the cat that just came back from the vets jumped out of the carrier. It's old and broken, so I'll have to get a new one for sure. I was scared that he'd run outside and run away!

My husband didn't do a thing to help! He blamed me for not putting down the carrier! What? I was startled, and most of us don't react to things right away when something catches us off guard, right? He's like a robot at times, ugh! He then told me that I "freak" out to much and that I need to work on that. He also denied raising his voice to me. So, did I overreact, or is he being an insensitive jerk? Our cat is a house cat btw, and he wouldn't last long on his own outside at all. I'd appreciate any feedback regarding this wether it's good or bad.