Maybe the hostility from society is due to your not conforming in so many other areas that deals with ASD even though you might not be formally Dx'ed with it at this point in time......& You are assuming that it has anything to do with your interest in younger women.....you haven't even dated or actually shown interest in younger women through any actions for anyone to judge you by.....so to assume they are judging you for actions you haven't even taken.....has NOTHING to do with reality & everything to do with thought you have chosen to generate in your own mind.

I have heard similar comments but it's not because of the age it's because of the inappropriate & CRUDE behavior that some of those guys have chosen to approach the younger women with. It's because of their behavior & attitudes they present, & that has nothing to do with their age unless you are going to generalize & say that the majority of guys in that older age bracket behave & have attitudes that are creepy toward younger girls.....that would also be an inappropriate generalization just as your generalization that the majority of society has a problem with older guys dating younger women.

I also know from personal experience, my H had serious problems with his behavior & attitude as part of his social awkwardness & that had an effect of people not wanting to be around him. It's more behaviors & attitudes that create situations that cause people to NOT want to be around a person & that usually has nothing to do with age but rather personality issues.