I'm not sure why it was closed.. Wish they would have closed this one instead, but anyway. Yes ignorance is carelessness and I can't Deny that. I can assure you me and her we're not in love when we had sex for the first time. Unfortunately that is the norm in most relationships today. Where I live, and I'm sure numerous other places, there are single mothers, children out of wedlock, broken family's. While I can't say I'm not proud to apart of that statistic but I can still say I will be there for my daughter and her mother.


As far as X, I will pursue that relationship. Whether it's infatuation or love (but apparently I have no idea what that is) If it doesn't work then I guess it's another life lesson. With the way I feel about her, To never try at all would be a failure in my book. And I've got plenty of them. I'm not perfect by a longshot. I'm sure you don't agree and I appriciate all the insight you have given