Perhaps you need to look at this situation in a different light...
Perhaps you were becoming too reliant on your therapist and this is exactly what you needed to focus on yourself and dig yourself out of your hole. I hate to say it, but when the day is done and the lights are off, regardless of who's next to you or coming home to you or awaiting your phone call, YOU are the only one who needs to wake up the next morning and get out of bed.
The work you did with this therapist did not go to waste, perhaps you went as far as you could possibly go with this guy and it's time to discover someone new. Like any other relationship we develop, when it boils down to it, the other person is a person too. They have wants, needs and know that when push comes to shove and their backs are up against the wall, they and they alone are the only ones who NEED to look out for themselves. Perhaps this is a something you need to realize first and foremost.
You need to work on You. It's no one else's reponsibility to take care of You but You.
Good luck!!!
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