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Originally Posted by connect.the.stars
Ok, so mainstream majority. From your observations of girls saying older guys are creepy, where does hate come into play?
Is their expression of discomfort equivalent to hatred?
Are there other reasons girls may use the label "creepy?" Perhaps the girl was approached through an online platform and the only thing she knew about this fellow was his age.
Do you think in general maybe girls feel that guys approaching them out of nowhere is creepy?
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Ah, now we're getting somewhere.
I don't infer hatred from girls referring to older guys as creepy. I infer it from the hostile, antagonistic comments I see repeatedly from women whenever this topic is discussed. An example would be a woman on another forum I was on who proclaimed that if a guy in his 30s tried to get with her 21 year old daughter, she would stab him to death with an ice pick.
But hatred or no hatred, the fact that they react with discomfort to an older guy being interested in them is an indication that they are passing a negative judgment on the guy. So I am still being pressured to repress my desire and abandon my pursuit of happiness.
And so what if a guy's age is the only thing she knows? If there was no stigma against dating younger girls, then this wouldn't be an issue. But there is. And even if the guy's age isn't the only thing she knows, it will still be an issue once she finds out. And that's thanks to how society is teaching girls to judge older guys.